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  • Do not conform.

    Do not conform.

    It’s important to follow God’s laws and be obedient to His Word, but social media and other forms of entertainment can sometimes get in the way of that.

    Hi! I haven’t been posting on this blog in a very long time. So long in fact, that I almost ended the blog entirely. The past couple years have been the craziest of my entire life (but that’s for another time). 

    When the new year started, I made some goals for myself (shocking right?). Those goals included: getting in a closer relationship with Jesus and making healthy choices for my family. I’ve been working on this goal by:

    1. Making non toxic swaps for my home
    2. Learning a new homemade skill every month 
    3. Committing to reading the whole Bible (with accountability) 
    4. Reading Proverbs 31 everyday  
    5. Taking an extended time off of Instagram 

    I’m learning everyday what it means to be a Christian wife and mother, but social media is not my instruction manual for that… the Bible is. 

    God’s Word should be the resource you use to guide your life. There have been way too many times that I have let Instagram or Pinterest tell me what my life should look like. What does that result in? That results in feelings of jealousy and inadequacy. That results in me spending too much of my time and money on things that give a certain “appearance” instead of things that God has purposed for my life. 

    This isn’t intended to be a “light” message.  Something that I am going to bring up in almost every single blog post this year is John 14:15, “If you love me, you will keep my commandments.” If we claim to have a relationship with Christ, we should be striving to obey his commandments. 

    “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.”

    Romans 12:2

    This verse is telling us that if we conform to the same things that the world is doing, then we won’t be able to discern the will of God. This means that when we look like the rest of the world, lines start to get blurred. “Oh it’s okay if I do this because…” or “that’s really not that big of a deal.” 

    “Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it.  But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it.” 

    Matthew 7:13-14

    Things that used to give us that uneasy feeling, feel acceptable now. If you have gotten too close to the things of this world, then you aren’t able to differentiate what is sin and what is not.

    The gate is narrow, but in our culture, we have a broad view of what is allowable and what is not. That’s very dangerous territory. The Bible teaches that it leads to destruction. 

    We are not supposed to look the way the rest of the world looks. Many of us are very lukewarm in this area. We are very quick to compromise in a lot of ways. There have been a lot of gray areas in our faith and we are quick to value comfort over conviction. 

    Social media can be an important tool in spreading the gospel. It is a great thing to be a light in this dark world, but don’t use that as an excuse. Like any addiction, it’s easy to say that it’s harmless when it’s actually an idol in your life. 

    This can often look like:

    • turning to the internet instead of the Word of God when making decisions on how to parent your children (Proverbs 22:6
    • constantly buying something new because you saw it online and now you can’t get it out of your head (Matthew 6:19-20)
    • endlessly scrolling on your phone instead of taking care of your other responsibilities.(1 Timothy 5:8)  
    • hiding behind your phone instead of cultivating the relationships in your life (Hebrews 10:25)
    • opening up the comments section to read all the mean things everyone is saying (or saying them yourself) (Ephesians 4:29)
    • spending your time catching up on social media rather than reading your Bible  (Psalm 119:9-10)
    • obsessing about likes to get the approval of the world (Galatians 1:10)
    • obsessing about someone else’s life instead of the life of Jesus (1 John 5:21)
    • being deceived into thinking that something is holy and biblical when it is not (2 Corinthians 11:13)
    • compromising on the values and instructions taught in the Bible because you’re so consumed in the world (Romans 12:2

    I have been taking some time off Instagram to get my heart in order. I want to post encouragement to others, but I need my relationship with Jesus and my duty as a wife and mother to come first. 

    The intention of this post is not to tell people to delete all social media. The point is to encourage you to check your heart and make sure that you are walking the narrow path. If you love Him, obey His commands!

  • Your clothes.

    Read Colossians 3:12-13

    Compassion.

    Kindness.

    Humility.

    Gentleness.

    Patience.

    Forgiveness.

    Love.

    In the morning, a general part of everyone’s routine is to put their clothes on. As a child and teenager, I used to have nightmares about going to school on the first day having forgotten to put clothes on 🤦🏼‍♀️. In reality, we would never do that.

    Colossians tell us to clothe ourselves with these things… yet most of us forget that everyday.

    How would it completely change our day or our week if we actually put on compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, forgiveness and love?

    I spend way too much time on social media. In that time spent, I see the opposite of these things. I see it in the comments from strangers and from people I know well (including ones I know are “Christians”). I’m also not always innocent.

    Maybe the change that we’re looking to see in the church, in the country and in the world will be found in how we start our mornings.

    We can’t forget to put our clothes on.

    Today, I’m not giving a question. Instead, I’m giving a challenge. Be intentional this week about putting on your clothes (compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, patience, forgiveness, love)

    Hint: there are 7 of them, so focus on one every day this week.

    Prayer,

    Lord, this morning, clothe me with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. Help me to forgive those that wrong me and to show love to everyone who comes in my path. I pray that I am a light in the world and a testimony of Your goodness. Let them see you everywhere I go.

    In Jesus name,

    Amen.

  • How are you filling your time?

    Read: Luke 10:38-42

    This passage takes place in the home of Mary and Martha. We see 2 very different personalities. Martha was busy serving and taking care of the guests that were in her home. She was frustrated with her sister Mary, who sat and listened to Jesus while Martha was doing all the “work”.

    We can see that Martha believed she was the one doing the right thing, but when she brought her concerns to Jesus, he described her as anxious. Instead of reprimanding Mary for her lack of service, He commended her.

    In this situation, Jesus wasn’t praising laziness, He was looking at the status of their hearts.

    Martha was filled with anxiety about things being perfect. Although the things she was doing may have been good, her heart and mind weren’t set on what was most important. Mary, on the other hand, sat at Jesus’ feet. She desired quality time and a relationship with Jesus.

    In our day to day life, God is looking at our heart. There are many things we could be doing, but “one thing is necessary” (v.52)

    The intent for these devotionals is to “sit at the feet of Jesus” I want to learn what the Word has to say and to spend quality time with Him.

    Are you filled with anxiety “trying” to do what you think you should instead of diving deeper in a relationship with Jesus?

    What are some things that you are filling your time with that might not be “necessary”.

    Pray

    Lord, I want to sit at your feet. I want to learn more about You and get closer to You everyday. Forgive me for filling my time with unnecessary things. Help me to prioritize spending time in the Word and prayer. I pray that there would be less of me and more of You.

    In Jesus Name

    Amen

  • Peace

    Then you will experience God’s peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus.

    Philippians 4:7 NLT

    I’m writing this blogpost because I’ve been a little MIA. It’ll be a short one, but there will be so much more to come.

    It’s been a pretty difficult season, but one of the things that has been overwhelmingly evident is God’s peace. In the past, I have feared hardship. Not for the obvious reasons, but because I didn’t know how I would react to these truly unimaginable situations. The truth is, I have experienced what all of these commonly quoted verses are referring to.

    Even though this story is still being written, I have so much peace in the fact that He’s in control. There’s only so much that man can do. If I put my trust in humans, I have very little hope. In Him, there is hope. I have hope because He has experience in the miracle business. I have hope because His ways are far beyond what I could imagine (Isaiah 55:8). I have hope because when I seek his presence, I find that his hand is all over my situation. (Jeremiah 29:13).

    I can’t describe this peace that I have, but I do know that God said He would give it. He hasn’t broken a promise or failed yet.

  • Nothing is too difficult

    Ah, Sovereign Lord, you have made the heavens and the earth by your great power and outstretched arm. Nothing is too hard for you.

    Jeremiah 32:17

    Remember the song “He’s got the whole world in His hands”? Sometimes it’s hard to fathom that the creator of the universe cares for the details of our life. If He can keep the Earth revolving around the sun, balance all the life on this planet, and engineer all the specifics of the humans body, then He can surely handle whatever situation that you are dealing with. Nothing is too difficult for Him.

    And if God cares so wonderfully for wildflowers that are here today and thrown into the fire tomorrow, he will certainly care for you. Why do you have so little faith?

    Matthew 6:30

    In Luke 12, it says that even the very hairs on your head are numbered. Whether the situation is big or small in your eyes, God finds it important and it’s safe in His hands.

    What’s our role in all of this?

    Give it to Him.

    Trust and have faith that although His plans and His answers may be different from our own, He surely has it under control. He has it all planned out. Every detail. We can see how important details are to Him in the intricacies of the universe. The details of our lives and of His Kingdom are no different. They are very specific and bigger than our minds can comprehend.

    The answer might not be what you were looking for, but it’s better. If you gave the situation to Him, it will be better because His ways are better.

    My thoughts are nothing like your thoughts,” says the Lord. “And my ways are far beyond anything you could imagine. For just as the heavens are higher than the earth, so my ways are higher than your ways and my thoughts higher than your thoughts.

    Isaiah 55:8-9

    We’ve seen that when we try to put matters into our own hands, they don’t turn out for the best. In Genesis, God promised Abraham that he would have a child. Because it wasn’t happening in the timing he expected, the way he expected or understood, he decided to makes things happen the way he knew how. He had a child with a woman who wasn’t his wife. Although that child was still loved, God had an even bigger plan for Abraham and showed that His ways were better and His standards were different. He planned for a child between him and his wife Sarah even in her old age. Abraham is known the father of many nations.

    He’s had this whole “big picture” thing on lock for a while now. He knows what He’s doing. He hasn’t failed yet and He’s not going to start. From the beginning of time there has been a purpose in every step taken. There’s no One better to take on your situation. Just give it to Him and let Him handle the rest.

  • A reason to be reasonable

    Let your reasonableness be known to everyone. The Lord is at hand; do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

    Philippians 4:5-7 ESV

    I had the opportunity to attend a church near St. Louis this past weekend and they were studying these verses. Although I’ve read it so many time before, I have often read this verse for encouragement in the midst of anxieties, but these verses are instructing us to be reasonable in our actions and responses. Paul gave a direction to the church to let your reasonableness be known to everyone. Some translations say to let your gentleness be known to everyone. So, casting your anxiety on Christ is a command we are given in order to keep our cool and display an agreeable temperament. Can we be gentle toward others if anxiety is overtaking us?

    Instead of living in anxiousness, God calls us to pray. He doesn’t just simply say to pray; He says to come to Him with prayer and supplication (or as some translations say “petition”) Supplication means to beg or ask earnestly and humbly. A petition is a formal request. We are told to recognize our placement in regards to a great God. We need to be aware of the fact that anxiety can’t be overcome on our own, but through the One who created us.

    We need to come to Him humbly and place it in His hands. Come to Him as a person would approach a king to present a request or a judge to petition a case. In needs to be in full humility and dependence on Him.

    THEN, the peace will come that surpasses all understanding. The peace does not come with any of our strength; it’s bigger than our minds can comprehend. Your situation may not have changed much or at all, but you have a peace that others will not understand.

    When you have peace that others don’t understand, you’ll display the reasonableness and gentleness that others will want. This is part of our testimony as Christians. We are set apart; not just with the morality of our actions, just also with the attitude that we exhibit.

    It seems like a simple enough concept… until you’re hit with the daily stressors in the supermarket, on the road, at your job. People are watching closely at how you handle yourself. If you just look and act like everyone else, how will others see Jesus in you. We are instructed to be reasonable.

  • Choose to be changed

    Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!

    2 Corinthians 5:17 NIV

    The old is gone, the new is here… but for how long? Too often we have an experience with God that leaves us changed, but after a few weeks in the real world, with real responsibilities, real problems and real temptations, we start to go back into to our superficial Christian ways.

    God can change your heart, but the relationship needs to be maintained. You need to choose to be changed. Once the decision is made, the work needs to take place. There needs to be a deliberate effort to get up early, pause Netflix, or tap the Bible app instead of Instagram.

    You are a new creation when you come to know Christ, but in order for you to mature and to receive all that He has for you, you must choose to walk in a new routine and a new mindset.

    When the struggles become real, because they will, we can’t attack those problems with the same old strategies. We need the wisdom from our Heavenly Father, and the trust in His plan to overcome the confusion.

    A relationship with Christ isn’t about feelings. Being involved in a week long conference or Christian concert are amazing perks, but those aren’t the actual life changing moments. We aren’t altered by the “feel good” experiences. The chains break and the mountains move when you choose to trust God and worship Him despite your circumstances. When the bills come in, when your job is stressing you out, when your marriage is on the rocks, when you have so much going on that you can’t think straight, when the depression sets in, when the temptations rise… those are the moments of shift. You’re on the brink of a breakthrough when it makes the most sense to give up.

    Living a life pleasing of the Father, relying on Him when you don’t understand, delighting in Him in the midst of your deepest heartache… that’s the real relationship.

    It’s not a feeling… it’s a choice.

  • He’s our Helper and Teacher 

    What is God asking you to do? What direction do you feel He is leading you toward? Does it seem impossible? Are you feeling anxiety about your ability to do what He is asking? 

    I’m usually one of those people who give God an attitude when He wants me to make moves for His Kingdom. 

    “I’m not the right person.”

    “I don’t have the skill.”

    “I don’t have the personality.” 

    “I don’t have to courage.”

    “I’m not really hearing Him.” 

    In my whining and pouting, I was brought to the story of Moses in Exodus 3 and 4. God came to Moses in a burning bush and explained to him His plan to save the Israelites from their captivity in Egypt. He wanted to use Moses as his vessel. Many of us know the story: Moses was called to help bring the Israelites out of Egypt; he pleaded with Pharaoh many times; Pharaoh kept saying no; God brought plagues to show the Egyptians His power; Pharaoh eventually released the Egyptians, after his first born son was dead; the Israelites almost got out, but Pharaoh changed his mind; God used Moses’ staff to part the sea and allow the Israelites to reach freedom. 

    The part that we don’t often talk about is that Moses doubted his ability to be used by God. God called to Moses, but Moses lacked the skill and confidence to carry out God’s plan. 

    Moses said to the Lord, “Pardon your servant, Lord. I have never been eloquent, neither in the past nor since you have spoken to your servant. I am slow of speech and tongue.” 

    Exodus‬ ‭4:10‬ ‭NIV‬‬

    God was calling Moses to be his spokesperson. Moses struggled with speaking. He wasn’t eloquent or good with his words. He didn’t think that he could be the powerful orator to bring the Israelites out of Egypt. The truth was, God didn’t need a professional, he needed someone with a willing heart. 

    How often do we go to God with that attitude? Maybe He has put a ministry on your heart, or called you as a missionary. Maybe He wants you to lead worship, or even has called you to be a pastor, and you don’t feel like you have the skill to carry on His will. Maybe you’re a Moses.

    What did God say in response to Moses’ insecurities? 

       The Lord said to him, “Who gave human beings their mouths? Who makes them deaf or mute? Who gives them sight or makes them blind? Is it not I, the Lord? Now go; I will help you speak and will teach you what to say.”

    Exodus‬ ‭4:11-12‬ ‭

    He gave us our personalities, our skills, our talents, and if He has called you to do His work, He’s also going to teach you how to carry it out. Among His many roles, He is our helper and our teacher. You don’t need to fear, because He is always with you. 
    Like I said, I’m one of those complainers. Recently, God told me to write a song. I often don’t feel confident in my writing, but God gave me the peace to know that it wasn’t my words, but His and He would tell me what to do. I just need to listen and trust. 

    Unfortunately, Moses didn’t fully trust. God wanted to use Him, but his insecurities got in the way. God sent a helper to Moses (his brother Aaron) and God’s will was still carried out. 

    His will WILL be done. He wants to use YOU. He promises to help you and teach you. Will you trust in Him or will you trust in your insecurities? 

  • Have you prayed about it as much as you’ve talked about it?

    If you believe, you will receive whatever you ask for in prayer.

    Matthew‬ ‭21:22‬ ‭


    A friend sent me this picture, which inspired this blogpost. “Have you prayed about it as much as you’ve talked about it?” This is quite the thought provoking statement. 


    How often share our concerns with everyone, except the Father? We talk about the future, but don’t realize it’s all in His hands. We vent about our problems, but don’t give God the control to change our situation. 

    If you have a relationship with Jesus Christ, you have communication with an omnipotent God who is willing and able to change all your situations, but we get stagnant in our walk and don’t pray about the important things. 

    Putting our confidence in man is easy. We get instant reaction. We can get the response that we WANT regarding our circumstance. It seems more difficult to put our trust in Christ, because we fear not getting the outcome we desire. The part we need to understand is that God knows the desires of our heart, and He also knows the plans for our future. Despite our beliefs, His plans are far better and more fulfilled than the ones we have for ourselves. 

    You know this, but do you believe it yet?

    What if… instead of complaining, we called upon the name of the Lord?

    What if… instead of being obsessed with our circumstances, we pointed our interests toward the one who can change it all?

    What if… instead of denying His power, we gave Him all the control? 

    What if… we prayed about it more than we talked about it?

  • Drink from the well that will satisfy 

    Humans will never satisfy. Only God can do that. 

    Many of us have learned the hard way that people disappoint. It’s easy to put our hopes and joy in humans, as they give us a tangible and immediate form of love. It seems too difficult or time consuming sometimes to cultivate a relationship with a God that can fill every empty spot and break every chain. 

    So again and again, we rely on the people close to us to do that. We use others to satisfy our self worth, intimacy, and success. How many of you know a perfect person? 

    Just like you and I have many faults, so will every human you come into contact with. 1 John 1:8 says:

    If we claim to be without sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us.

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    God has a plan and a purpose for the relationships in your life. He created family and friendships and marriage. He longs for your relationships to be healthy and holy. He wants them to thrive, but He doesn’t want them to take the place of Him. They can’t take the place of Him. 

    Your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, wife, best friend, etc. can’t fill your life like Jesus can. You can try to gain satisfaction from this world, but you’ll never attain it. 

    In John 4, Jesus speaks to the Samaritan woman. This passage tells that she had had five husbands and was currently with a man who was not her husband. This woman was searching for her contentment through means that did not satisfy. When this woman came to the well, she found truth. 

    Jesus answered, “Everyone who drinks this water will be thirsty again, but whoever drinks the water I give them will never thirst. Indeed, the water I give them will become in them a spring of water welling up to eternal life.” 

    John‬ ‭4:13-14‬ ‭


    You can keep searching for the missing piece through relationships, success, education, but the truth is you’ll never find it. You’ll never be truly fulfilled until you come and drink from the well that will satisfy. Know Jesus. Know Him personally. Spend time in His word, speak with Him and let Him fill you.